Honor Your Parents

What is your relationship with your parents? Is it one of respect? Is it a strained relationship? Have you spent time putting yourself in their shoes? Do you attempt to see through their eyes? Are you willing to honor them as God has commanded?

We see varying relationships between children and parents. Some are very good. Others are not good at all. Many reasons are given for those that are not good. Some justified, some not. Some are strained because of selfishness, self-pity, and obstinance.

God commands us to honor our father and mother. There are circumstances which can make that very difficult. We know there are some parents who are addicted to drugs or alcohol. Some parents are abusive. God does not expect you to remain in dangerous situations. However, He has called us to love and forgive as He has done. No, that is not easy to do in all situations. It may require years to be able to love and forgive, depending on the situation and our relationship with God.

On the other hand, we also see relationships that appear to be very good, yet children behave disrespectful toward their parents. In many cases, they don’t even realize it. We can put the blame on society. We can blame today’s culture. But what does that say about us? It says we have strayed far from God and His desires for our lives.

God did not randomly command children to honor their parents. Nor did He randomly tell parents to love and care for their children. The family unit is precious to God. After all, God has adopted each of us into His family. Honoring our father and mother is an act of worship to God. In honoring them, we honor Him.

I pray we all honor God. I pray we honor our father and mother as God has commanded. I pray each one of us will determine to toss aside societal norms to obey God’s commands. Honor God. Honor your parents. Love your children. Hold the family in high esteem. Obey God’s commands.

Matthew 15:3-7a Jesus replied, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’ and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’ But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is ‘devoted to God,’ they are not to ‘honor their father or mother’ with it. Thus you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition. You hypocrites!”

Published by martypressey

Marty is a Pastor, retired Marine and dedicated Christian who has taught adult Bible classes and preached for 20 years. He currently serves as pastor of 3 United Methodist Churches. He believes being well-grounded in the Scriptures is key to living a better life. He brings a layman’s viewpoint to all his classes and sermons, helping others understand how to apply Scripture to their daily lives. When he sees others understand the message of a particular passage, it brings him great joy. He has seen his faith increase exponentially over the years; fully believing God has a plan and is executing it. He feels blessed to be part of that plan.

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